Somebody stop the train! 7 Key Strategies for Coping with Stress

Lately I've been having conversations with my friends about how quickly time seems to be going. We all seem to be having the same experience of time just FLYING... It feels like even in just the last 3 months, someone flicked some cosmic switch and just put us all in warp speed. Do you feel it too? There is just sooo much to do, and we feel perpetually "on"... busy beyond busy, yet a feeling of never really making a lot of progress. And, while friends are on our minds, and we still feel connected to each other, a month can easily pass without so much as a phone call... maybe a quick email exchange here or there, but no real face time or even phone time. When we speak, we pick up where we left off, but as we're talking, we catch ourselves referring to things that have happened in our lives as if the other person knew about them... when we realize we hadn't talked since before "X" happened, we are snapped into the reality that "holy crap, we really haven't talked in a while, eh?" I'm glad to know this isn't just me feeling this way, and the fact that we're all going through this together is somewhat comforting, and allows us to give each other the breathing room without anyone taking the lack of contact personally. But shoot, it's exhausting isn't it? AND... I miss my peeps! AND... dun dun duuuuuun... we're only about to go into the holiday season! Let the madness begin! Sigh. Anyone else getting a headache? I need a nap.

At times like this, we may be feeling a multitude of effects of being in the "Warp Zone." For example:

• Physically - tired & depressed, or alternatively tired & "wired," headaches, difficulties with digestion, having an increase in appetite or cravings for sweet & fatty foods, feel like you can never get enough sleep, perhaps catching colds or sore throats more easily
  
• Mentally - low mood/apathetic, or anxious, irritable, and time-pressured, problems concentrating or remembering things
• Spiritually - somewhat disconnected, perhaps you look back at your day (or even just what you were doing in the last hour) and it's all just a blur... especially activities involving interacting with other people, if you look back on it a couple of hours later, does it feel like it was way earlier in the day or like several days have passed since the interaction?

These (and there are more) are all signs of chronic stress. Stress is the absolute #1 underlying factor in the development dis-ease and lack of vitality and wellness. Short of adding more hours to the day or physically slowing time down, there are some things you can do for yourself - body, mind and spirit - to help mitigate the effects of stress:

1. Breathe. Get PRESENT. Ever notice how when we are kids, a day feels like a week, a week, is like a month, and summer feels like it goes on forever, but it seems like the older we get, the faster time speeds by; A day is nothing, in fact we wish we had more time... a week flies by like a day used to feel, and the summer... it's what we were looking forward to back in March and April a the first signs of spring, but suddenly in autumn we're looking back and realizing it's gone already and we didn't even take advantage of it. This happens because as adults, we are always focusing so much on the future - what we have to get, want to get done, need to get done, or "can't wait for." When your head is always in the future, your body and soul go with it. You are no longer present in the here and now, so you don't experience it fully. Bring your focus back to the present moment. Remind yourself to do this several times a day. Give yourself even just 2 minutes to take some deep breaths, look around and notice the sights, sounds, smells... look out a window (or better yet, go outside), talk to someone and get back in the moment, and regain some perspective.
2. 
   Honour your body's need for sleep and rest. If you aren't getting enough rest, you are going to burn out, mentally and physically. When you're under periods of stress, your body needs more recovery time, and your brain needs a break. You're going to crave sugary and fatty foods, you're going to feel depressed or anxious, and let's face it, you're not going to be nearly as productive or as effective in anything you do. Your workouts will suffer, your work performance will suffer, and your motivation to do much outside of work will suffer. This makes it harder to do the next step.
3. 
   Stay organized. Make lists, and prioritize. Recognize there ARE only so many hours in the day. Take the pressure off to be a super hero, take a stand for your "only human" self, and give yourself a break. If you have a tendency to run a to-do list in your head all the time, do yourself a favour and just write it down. Use electronics to your advantage; for example, you can use the "tasks" function in Outlook to remind you of important tasks - when something comes up that you need/want to follow up on, schedule a task for that date/time and let it pop up to remind you. Or use a dayplanner and do the same thing. And, please make sure you put at least ONE thing on that list EVERY DAY and EVERY WEEK that is fun, relaxing, and rejuvenating for YOU.
4. 
   Eat a well balanced, nutrient-dense diet that is nourishing to body and soul. Much like getting enough rest, your body, mind and spirit cannot go on well without getting adequate nutrition to support the demands you're making to keep going at that pace. Eat more fruits, veggies, whole grains, and beans and legumes. Eat a little less animal protein. Eat grounding foods like sweet potatoes, carrots, turnips and beans. Soups and stews are easy to digest and comfort the body and soul.
5. 
   Take B-vitamins and Vitamin C. These vitamins are depleted under periods of high stress. B-vitamins in particular help your body cope with stress, and boost your energy and support digestion and metabolism of carbs, fat, and protein. Vitamin C helps as well, and supports the immune system which can become compromised by excess stress.
6. 
   Take adrenal support supplements and/or 5-HTP. The adrenal glands are the body's stress-glands. They product stress hormones that help your body release extra energy to keep you going. But they can become overworked and fatigued when stress goes on too long. A nutritious diet, b-vitamins, and adequate rest are important. Avoid caffeine, it adds more stimulation to the adrenals. Try "adaptogenic" herbs (adrenal supporting, helping your body adapt to stress) such as Relora, Rhodiola, or even adrenal glandular formulations. 5-HTP is a hormone that supports serotonin production, so if you are feeling depressed, this can help. However, consult a doctor before taking it if you are already taking SSRI medications for depression.
7. 
   Less screen time, more face time. The relationships in our lives are what make life worth living, aren't they? So while life seems to have sped up with more and more demands on our time, remember, you will never on your death-bed wish you'd spent more time at the office, or catching up on your tv shows, or playing internet games or surfing the net. Time spent connecting with friends and loved ones and colleagues alike is ALWAYS time well spent, and help us get present and reconnected to ourselves. Make sure you take some time EVERY DAY to connect with at least one important person in your life, even if just for 10 minutes (the more the better).

As the holidays approach, use these strategies and CONSCIOUSLY CHOOSE how you want to spend your time, and how you want to remember them. Be present, take the pressure off, and prioritize yourself, your health, your relationships, and your enjoyment of the time that you have. I know it feels like it's not possible and not in your hands to choose how your time is spent. If that's the case, then perhaps the first priority for you is in fact to prioritize YOURSELF. No one else - and certainly no job - will do this for you. You have to own it, and make it happen. The reward is priceless.

Satisfying your Sweet Tooth

No willpower when it comes to sweets? You are not alone! We all crave sweet foods. Here's why: our tongues have a large amount of sweet taste buds, and they demand to be satisfied. As well, highly sweet foods trigger reward centres in the brain, and create an automatic drive for them when triggered (by a taste of sweetness, or by places, people, activities, emotions, etc, that are associated with sweet foods). There can also be underlying factors (such as candida overgrowth) that can contribute to strong sugar cravings (a natural healthcare practitioner such as a Naturopathic Doctor or a Holistic Nutritionist can help you assess this, and prepare a personalized protocol to help you cleanse candida if it is a factor for you). So how can we satisfy a sweet tooth without resorting to a date with Oh Henry, Mr Big, or Ben & Jerry?

One strategy that works beautifully for my clients is, rather than focusing on removing sugary foods, focus on adding naturally sweet foods to their diets every day. Sweet buds become less demanding when they're getting their daily fix. So what are naturally sweet foods? Fruit, of course. Root veggies such as sweet potatoes and squash. And, surprise surprise: Grains! The longer you chew whole grains, they sweeter they taste, and they keep your blood sugar steady, and keep your gut-friendly bacteria happy too!

How else can we tame the Cookie Monster who lives within? After you've added sweet foods to your daily diet, look for ways to add sweetness to your life. We often settle for sweet foods when what we really want is a hug, a nap, a walk, or a laugh with a good friend. This is particularly true at night. If you find your sweet tooth consistently talking to you around 8 to 10pm, it may be rearing its head to cover up feelings of loneliness or anxiety. Or it may have become a habit to help you relax, or reward yourself after a long day. The next time your PM craving hits, ask yourself what you really, truly need. Then do your best to give it to yourself, and watch the sweet cravings fade away.

Wellness quick tip:
Sleep cures sugar cravings! Sound simplistic? It is, and it works! Check out how much sleep you're getting. If it's less than 8 hours a night, you may crave sugar (and caffeine) during the day to make up for the recharging sleep you missed. Start going to bed a half hour earlier each week until you're regularly waking up refreshed and watch your cravings disappear.

And don't forget, Spring is offering an informative workshop to learn more about how to Shake the Sugar Habit, this Tuesday, November 3, 2009. Click the link to learn more!

10 Keys to Weight Loss... Naturally

1. Keep your blood sugar steady: Avoid the “crash and burn” effect of refined carbs and simple sugars such as white bread, pasta, rice, potatoes, sugar and caffeine. Sugars (especially in combination with fat and salt) are addictive. By selecting whole grains and fruit and veggies as your sources of carbohydrates, and eating every 3-4 hours, you will eliminate cravings that sabotage the best of us.
   
2. Maintain good hydration: Drink hydrating beverages throughout the day, and aim for half your body weight in ounces (eg: 150 pound person should drink 75 oz or approximately 9 to 10 cups of water per day). When you become dehydrated, your metabolism slows down, toxins begin to accumulate and create a sluggish liver, and you end up with low energy, among other impacts. Your best choices are pure water, or herbal teas that contain no caffeine or sugar. If you find it hard to drink plain water, flavour it with slices of lemon, lime, grapefruit or orange. Try adding some fresh mint leaves, or even some slices of fresh ginger. This makes a refreshing summer drink, adds antioxidants and helps soothe the digestive tract.
3. Eat lots of fibre (at least 35g/day): Fibre keeps you feeling full, slows the digestion which allows the body to better absorb the vitamins and minerals from your food, lowers cholesterol helps eliminate toxins, and helps keep blood sugar steady. Best sources of fibre are veggies, fruit, whole grains, and beans/legumes.
   
4. Eat protein at every meal: Eating protein helps with the repair of muscle tissues (especially important if you’re exercising regularly, which of course you are, right?!!), and has a high thermogenic effect. In other words, it takes more energy (calories) to digest protein than any other macronutrient, so eating protein helps raise your metabolic rate. Choose lean, organic animal proteins (chicken, fish, turkey, eggs, and limited amounts of red meat), beans, tofu, nuts and seeds.
   
5. Eat adequate amounts of healthy fats (20- 30% of your daily caloric intake): Fat is not the demon it’s been made out to be! Essential fatty acids (especially Omega-3) are called “essential” for a reason – your body cannot make them itself and they are required for the structure and function of every cell in your body, especially your brain and nervous system, and your endocrine system which manages your hormones. Excellent sources of healthy fats include coconut oil, olive oil, flax oil and ground flax seeds, avocado, nuts such as almonds and walnuts, and yes, even SMALL amounts of dark chocolate.
   
6. Eat a diet of WHOLE LIVE foods: Avoid processed and refined foods, and eliminate all artificial sweeteners, MSG, and trans-fats. When you eat these refined foods, you set yourself up to crave food all the time, as your body tries to find the balance that it is programmed to expect from whole foods. Aim for a rainbow of colours on your plate from the world of fresh fruits and veggies, and select plant sources of protein more often.
   
7. Get moving daily: Incorporate activity into your day every day... park your car further from the store, take the stairs more often, scrub the floors and clean the windows.... go out for a walk, bike ride, play tennis, or take a class at the gym! You’ll burn calories during your workout, for up to 48 hours after, and in the long run, increase your metabolic rate permanently by building lean muscle mass. And the benefits of exercise for weight loss go beyond caloric burn – it also helps your body “shake off” the effects of stress, improve mood and self-esteem, create a firm and toned appearance, helps eliminate toxins through sweat which allows the liver to keep up with its many functions including directing the metabolism... the benefits are countless!
   
8. Sleep! Studies show that when we don't get enough or good quality sleep, we eat more! Establish a “bedtime routine” including some relaxation time (a warm bath, meditation or relaxation exercises, deep breathing, light reading) away from sources of electricity (like the TV or computer), and have regular bed and wake times.
   
9. Deal with emotions emotionally: Food is fuel for your body. If you find yourself thinking about food when you’re not hungry, use this as a signal that you may have some underlying emotions that are trying to talk to you. If this happens often, the old adage “It’s not what you’re eating, it’s what’s eating you” is an important key for you. Emotions need to be handled emotionally.... in other words, acknowledge them, express them, and let them go... don't swallow them along with a tub of ice cream!
   
10. Set SMART Goals: Giving yourself goals to work toward gives you something tangible to accomplish, and creates a “finish line” for you to cross. Making your goals SMART helps you know when you’ve achieved your goals so you can celebrate, and create some new goals. SMART goals are: Specific, Measureable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound.
    

AND ONE BONUS KEY:
Be kind, be patient, and be gentle with yourself. Healthy living is not an “all or nothing” thing. It is a continuum, and as you start making changes, build on them... before you know it you will be making more healthy choices than not. Aim for the 85/15 rule – 85% of your choices should be healthy whole foods, allowing for 15% “fun” foods where you may choose less than the ideal. These foods have a place in your diet too, if you make your choices consciously... remember, it’s about Body, Mind, and Spirit. When you choose those “Spirit” foods, don’t berate yourself for it, enjoy it fully! And then make your next choice a healthy one. Acknowledge the hard work you’re doing every day, and remind yourself each night as you go to sleep that “Today I am healthier/fitter/stronger than I was yesterday.”

Inspire Yourself!