Cheat Days, friend or foe?

I'm quoting my new favouritest Nutritionist, Meghan Telpner here: I think diets with ‘cheat days’ are just lame. The chocolate chip won’t leave your shoulder until you stop dusting it off and putting it back there come Friday and then bemoan its effects the remainder of the week.

So well put. So many diets propose the idea of a cheat day as relief from the pain and drudgery of the deprivation and restriction that the diet imposes... they suggest by having a cheat day, you get to indulge in those treats that you have to avoid the rest of the week... a little reward for your efforts, and a way of staying sane. I have a problem with the cheat day concept on several counts.

First, "cheating" means you've broken the rules and can run wild and fancy free... whether for a day, or a meal, you're inclined to just go crazy and cram in as much of the yummy stuff as you can before you have to go back to your boring, restrictive diet. So we can easily overdo it, and end up wiping out the progress you made the rest of the week. Heartbreaking, and what a waste of energy and effort.

The cheat day also implies that the rest of the week, your "diet" food isn't so tasty, but rather something you HAVE TO eat to lose weight. People, that is the exact problem with diets. You can't stick to a dietary program that isn't feeding you wholly - body and spirit. If you're eating stuff because you HAVE TO and not eating other stuff because you're NOT ALLOWED, well, I will tell you from painful first hand experience, it's not going to be something you can maintain for life, or even for long... unless you're willing to live a pretty bland life full of deprivation? Eating healthfully can be very rich, very flavourful, and sooooo nourishing to both body and soul... and when it is, every meal can be another opportunity for a treat so that we don't feel this overwhelming need to eat as much as we possibly can before time runs out. There's another meal coming just a few hours away! Woohoo!

The other problem with cheat days, as Meghan so aptly put, is that we actually make it harder on ourselves to really enjoy healthy foods. The foods we "cheat" with tend to be high-sugar, high-fat, and high-salt selections... junk food, fast food, and highly chemicalized in a way that makes the flavours very intense. They "hit" your brain and biochemistry in a way that lead you to never be able to get enough. Each time you indulge in foods high in sugar, fat, and salt, you are reinforcing a bio and neurochemical response that triggers you to want more. So let's say you get through 6 days of healthy clean eating ... most of which tasted like cardboard because it's low-fat, low-carb, and because compared to our Day 7 (aka: cheat day) food, it's really bland (our taste buds have been trained to expect intense sugar and fat and salt and we can't even really distinguish the layers of flavours in more natural foods anymore). So on Day 7 we have our cheat day, and we just reinforce to our brains, bodies, and taste buds to respond to those types of foods, making the rest of the week a painful experience. The next 2-3 days after our cheat day, we have to go through a whole new period of withdrawal where high sugar, fat, and salty foods are calling our names. That's HARD to resist. So in the long run, it's pretty rare that the cheat day doesn't turn into cheat dayS (plural) and eventually we return to our old ways. We regain any weight we lost, and feel hopeless and a failure and that it's impossible to stick to any diet long enough to get real lasting results.

What's more, studies have shown that the brain's response to these foods (which in fact is the same response it has to cocaine, heroine, and morphine!) is MORE INTENSE when reexposed to it after a period of abstinence! So by not having these foods for most of the week, and then eating them again, we make the reaction of the brain stronger, making it that much harder for us to resist them when something triggers us to want them (seeing the food, smelling it, being in places, or with people, or doing activities, or feeling emotions that have previously been associated with those foods).

I'm not a fan of cheat days. What I do like, as we're moving toward a more whole foods, natural, healthful diet, is using a good amount of healthy fats in most meals which helps keep me satisifed and is excellent for my brain, my heart, and every cell in my body, and which helps me not continuously crave for more. I like also having a "treat" (not a "cheat") every few days... something made with whole food ingredients, but maybe a little sweet or indulgent in some respect - in portion controlled amounts. This keeps balance for body and soul, and helps me let go of that "diet mentality" that just adds stress and makes my body hold onto fat even more.

So that's my two cents. Anyone think otherwise? Has the "cheat day" worked for anyone out there? I'd love to hear other opinions on the matter.

And I'd be remiss if I didn't point out that if you are interested to learn more about the body and brain's response to sugar, fat, and salt, and about the impacts of stress on our body's metabolic activity, AND get practical PROVEN strategies for how to override those responses so that you can make lasting changes, you'll LOVE the workshop I have coming up on Thurs Sept 24 at the Toronto Healing Arts Centre at 7pm. Take a look at http://springrenual.ca/services.aspx for more details or contact me directly!